It's very liberating! I used to feel a bit nervous about prompting for kinkfest, thought my kinks were lame, but then the more I read the more I got ~in touch~ with what I like in fic, so yeah, pretty much embrace the kinkiness. And I've realised that reading kinky fic I'm more open to read a variety of pairings. Characters (or pairings) I never thought before, I read something and omg, I'm always surprise by how well people make them work. :D